Problems with dating an older woman
It’s every older guy’s dream to have a young, beautiful little thing hanging off his arm on the way to dinner or another social function.
But inter-generational relationships can be fraught with dangers, and most of these dangers come squarely down to one reason: poor management of expectations.
The fact is, you have a rounded understanding of the world that reaches into a whole range of topics the younger man can’t even touch.
You have opinions that are considered and respected, and you have the confidence to deliver them; the younger man is limited to names and performances of his favorite sportsmen, while you can hold court upon any subject with ease.
The following dos and don’ts should give you a better idea how to manage your position in your May-December relationship to your best advantage. One of the main reasons that she’s with you, and not with some stud of her own age, is that younger guys often don’t hit the emotional mark.
They may have the bodies of demigods, but they can also have the emotional maturity of a walnut. Show her how even-headed you are and how readily able you are to talk about your feelings in a calm and responsive manner.
The older man in a relationship with a younger woman often struggles to correctly identify what it is that has attracted her in the first place.
The older male, however, knows exactly what his hands, fingers, lips, and tongue are for, and knows when to use them.
Use your sexual sophistication to give her what easily may be her first true orgasm, and have her begging to come back for more. Yes, you’re older, you probably have a better career than any of the younger guys she knows–and consequently, a lot more money.
However, don’t try to take advantage of this fact to secure her affections.
She will feel important and worthy of listening to, and will definitely be ready to take things a step further. If you’re lucky enough to progress the relationship to the bedroom, then you’re in a fantastic position to consolidate your superiority over the younger man.
It is usually the case that the twentysomething male has a “jump straight in, genitals first and only” kind of approach.