Dating someone recently separated
You have no idea the truth, you have no idea of their marriage dynamics, and you shouldn’t be in the midst of it. If you find out your guy is in this situation, tell him to call you back when his marriage is OVER. I didn’t start dating in earnest for seven months post-split and when I did, there was zero chance of any reconciliation ever. If you find yourself post-split and are ready to start dating, you need to think very clearly about your motives. You must focus on you, your children, your divorce proceedings, and your life first. One of her husband’s co-workers came up and started talking to me.He was not attractive, and I felt like he approached me because he was curious to talk to “the divorced girl.” A few minutes later, another man approached me.I seriously just thought he thought I was interesting and nice.
It didn’t matter how skinny I was, I was the big 4-1.
“Uh…sure…” I said, seriously still not getting the fact that he liked me. We kissed for a long time and then he asked me for my phone number.
I think my drive home that night was the turning point in my newly separated life.
What was funny about the whole night was, it never occurred to me that he was interested in me.
My low self-esteem had caused me to give up any possible notion that he or anyone else would find me attractive.