Dating a man 14 years older than me
It has its perks and it has its bummer moments, but I think dating up in age is something that women should do at least once in life, even if it doesn’t turn into something serious.Dating an older man can teach you a lot, especially about yourself (and what you do and don’t want in a partner), but it’s not always the easiest of relationships. Just in case you’re thinking of getting serious with a fella quite a few years older or even decades older than you, here are a few things you might want to keep in mind before you get it crackin’.
I am 41 and my bf is 57 going to be 58 in few months..... But i told my parents they said ok you have my blessings...a week later they acted a fool. Just make sure you are ready for emotional and mental stress ok ? I didnt want to, but after a while, you see your parents true colors and see if they really care about your happiness Remember: Those who mind, dont matter and those who dont mind, matter Well handle it carefully..my mom loves him, but i've had alot of trouble because people judge us. so idont care what people think about me its my life not theres i was with a 30 and im 37 and i got picked on but i just laughed and told them i picked him up at the highschool.so just tell them that you picked him up at the nursing home.they bust your **** or say something to you.. tell them look stop talking **** that you dont want to hear it anymore and if they cant accept who you are with then i would talk to them anymore.. I have gone through the same with people (freinds) who have had opinions of me and what I do. You will never keep people happy, so don't even involve their personal opinion in your personal relationship. If anyone says anything to you or even looks at you strangely,just say "I'm respected" that's what matters to me! That is normal in some cultures and not a bad idea.because if there your true freinds they will be happy for you no matter who you are with.them judge you maybe there just jealous.the i do not care additude and it will eventually stop.. It is none of their business and some people love to gossip and embelish their thoughts. If this gentleman truly makes you happy then disregard the naysayers and follow your own heart. well if you're old enough to know what you want and if your mother approves of him, I don't know why you worry too much about what other people say. Im in pretty much the same situation, but its only been a few weeks. She knows him and does like him, but she works for him (as do i, its how we met). I however need to get my children off into the world before I make a commitment to marriage,.. My first 'girl friend' at 19 was my mom's friend - I was her "pool boy".(“Just because you’re 44 and you don’t like to do ___ doesn’t mean ___.”) Just as you wouldn’t want him to continuously blame certain things you do on your age (like you’re a child), I wouldn’t recommend doing the same. An older man might know what he wants for himself in the next span of years, but so do his family members.And if he likes a certain type of music or movie that is a bit “old” for you, don’t be too dramatic when he talks about his love for it (i.e. Don’t get too bent out of shape if a question is asked of you that you didn’t see coming (“When are you guys getting married?? Just be honest about the fact that you’re taking things slow (if that’s what you’re doing) and keep it cool (Or, “You gotta ask him” always works).