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“He knows the Bible so well and loves the Lord – this is a man who could lead me, this is a man who could be my husband and the father of my children.
This is a man whom I would be proud to serve as his help meet.” – This is what she thought.
Jonathan knows it will be two years before he graduates from college with his pastoral degree and then he can being looking for his first ministry as a youth pastor.
He believes a man must be able to provide for his wife as Christ provides for his Church before he can marry her.
I think the best way to illustrate the cruelty of so-called “Christian dating” is with a story.
Jonathan was a young Christian man raised in a conservative Baptist Church.
This “half measure” abstinence that is taught in most Churches today has lead to modern practices in Christian dating that encourage emotional cruelty toward men.He wonders how soon he should propose knowing it will be some time before they can marry.One day he decides to “take the plunge” and even though it will still be roughly two years before he graduates and gets his first ministry job – he is going to pledge his undying love and devotion to her and the fact that he wants to marry Sarah when the time is right in a little over two years.Every day he texted her and she couldn’t wait to hear about his day and to share the happenings of her day with him. If he went several hours without texting her, she would text him to check and see how he was doing and if anything was wrong.Every beep of her phone was a thrill – “how will he tell me he loves me next? With each date she went on with him she was more impressed with his character and godliness more than ever.